Going bald and only 17. Particular hair loss around the crown and above the temples.?

Ok so I am piss ugly. It's not in my head. I'm 17, my ears are already 6 cm from the top to the lobe, my forehead bulges like a neanderthal, my nose sticks out quite noticeably and goes straight down and my teeth are so big that they push out my mouth in a way similar to that of a baboon. So I accepted this. I grew my hair to cover my ears and the top part of my face. I became particularly fit to try and compensate for my physical repulsiveness and just avoided photo's. But it seems that god has found a couple of new ways to ruin my life. For starters I think I'm balding. Mes of hair come out consistently in the shower and I recently took a photo of my head from above to find that my crown shows way 2 much scalp for it to be considered normal. Also my hair is receding above my temples but because its long you can't notice it so I'm not worried about that. Now the problem with me going bald is that as mentioned earlier I'm already ugly. Hence the slight comfort that long hair provided me in covering some of my features is gone. At least with long hair I feel normal enough to go out in public, to socialise and even if it won't happen, to contemplate going out with a girl. Without hair my motivation, my self esteem, my very will to engage in every day activities is diminished. Just seeing myself after getting my hair cut makes me want to kill myself, so If I go bald, I have no doubt that that's the road I'll be taking. I asked my hair dresser one time what she thought and was told that hair loss during teenage years is normal and that it will come back in my twenties but in comparison to others my age I seem to be genuinely balding. Now I don't want people telling me to grow old gracefully or that its not that bad, that people will see past my cosmetic deformities and accept me for whats inside. I don't want sympathy or people telling me to push through this. I would just like to know if my hair loss is likely 2 lead 2 full blown baldness and if so what can be done to prolong or if possible 2 stop the process. Btw my Dad is completely bald and has been since his 30's. Here's a link to a photo of my crown (had to cut out the back ground because people may recognise it) http://www.imagehousing.com/imageupload.php?id=605263